Dahmenah, the Relationship Diva here, and I just got back from some fun in the sun. There is nothing like a little wind while driving to remind you that you are alive.
While relaxing during my trip, I spotted this… How should I describe him? He was the type man that made me take more than a second look. So I started thinking how can I get his attention? I could walk up and introduce myself, no that’s masculine and I’m feminine; or I could try to make eye contact and smile to let him know I’m interested. However, just when I was trying to come up with a third option guess who made an appearance, his Woman. At that moment, my attraction for him disappeared because I don’t knowingly disrespect any Woman who’s in a committed relationship by crossing that invisible line. What do I mean by the invisible line?
The invisible line is a line you don’t see but you know it’s there. It’s obvious to every Woman that she should not cross it because if the shoe was on her foot she would not want you to wear it. Besides, I have too much self esteem to chase after a Man that is already taken; or to allow a Man who decided to step out to step into my precious World. Also, I enjoy the light so why would I want someone to keep me hidden in the dark. I also believe that all women are part of a Community, therefore, we must look out for one another instead of letting things like envy, jealousy, competition, nasty words separate our strength. Together we can change the world, divided or individually we are only as strong as we perceive ourselves to be.
Let me be clear; deep in my past I have crossed that invisible line. Yes, I paid dearly for it. The saying is most definitely true, “what goes around comes back around,” and sometimes we don’t realize when we are walking around self –esteemless (not an actual word). Anyway, you get the point, so if any of you are being naughty big girls; try on her shoes for size to see how they fit.
This is your Relationship Diva signing off; I have adventures to create, places to explore and people to meet.
Until next time, may your days be filled with peace, passion, pleasure and purpose.
Dahmenah
While working in Social Service field for 14 years, Dahmenah had the opportunity to work with mostly single Women and their children. This experience along with her personal struggles with relationships set her on a new course. She began reading books on relationships, also being a filmmaker, she decided to interview relationship gurus, matchmakers, single and married people for her two documentaries, “Happily Ever After” and “Can’t find Love.” Based on the information she gathered and her experiences, she realized spiritual/emotional work was needed, so she began a new Journey of self-discovery and self-love. After that life changing Journey, she joined forces with her business partner Charyn to form Gurl Know and went on to write The Dating Revolution: A 12 Step Journey to Rediscovering Your Power and Companion Journal and their most recent book Dating Revolution: 12 Game Changers for Women to Take Back Control of the Dating Game. You can connect with Damenah at the Gurl Know
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