Relationship Diva here, dating in the 21st Century sucks! I know the word “sucks” is not eloquent but it sums up the situation quite nicely. It really shouldn’t be so hard to get and keep a Man! But it is and why is that? As your Relationship Diva, I have more than a few theories about this topic:
1. The world has gotten too small so there are many options for us to choose from therefore we are always looking for someone better.
2. Sex appeal is a lost art form for both sexes too few of us practice it because we are too busy to be bothered. What a shame!!
3. A lot of us do not know what we want in a Man or out of life, etc….
4. Masculine energy seems to be on the rise among Women which causes problems when dealing with a Masculine Man.
5. Some of us have Desperate Dating Behaviors.
Have I lost anyone? Did you read the above and say none of that pertains to me? If you’re not sure, then ask one or more of your girlfriends their opinions but only ask the ones who will tell you the truth. If you are not sure whether you are Desperate Dater (“DD”) go to www.gurlknow.com/coaching and answer the questions. If you discover that you are a “DD” after answering the questions, all is not lost…you have to Power to Change anytime you like.
Today, life has so much to offer but you have to pay attention to your environment, choices and how you treat yourself. Having someone to share your life with is important but what is more important is what you see when you look in the mirror!
This is your Relationship Diva signing off; I have places to explore and people to meet. Until next time, may your days be filled with peace, passion, pleasure and purpose.
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