Love Who?

Relationship Diva here, I have a very boring topic for you today; but consider this what if Women loved themselves. Oh now that is a scary thought! All joking aside, you may be amazed to discover that a lot of Women do not love themselves and out of that group most do know how. What I really should say is that they are unaware of how they treat themselves. The reason some Women do not know how to love themselves is because we do not live in a society that teaches self love. So how do we learn if it’s not taught in schools and mother did know anything about it either?

The first relationship a Woman should have is with herself. If you “date” yourself or focus on self, you will connect with your spirit and there you will discover how to treat/love yourself. The foundation of self-love is about how you treat yourself. Now, some of us don’t like to go to the doctor or dentist, not good. Some of us put bad food in our stomachs, not good. Some of us do not keep our bodies strong/youthful by exercising, not good. Some of us don’t get facials or massages, not good. Some of us don’t take “star” time to curl up with a good book and a cup or your favorite beverage, again not good. What is “star” time, we are all part of this Universe and every star in the galaxy should shine brightly even you. But in order to shine you have to take the time to recharge regularly whether it’s an hour or a day.

I know some of the self-proclaimed work alcoholics might be thinking I don’t have time for this, well, I say make the time because there is only one of you and the Universe wants you here for a very long time. Remember this, if you want others to treat you well, you should start by treating yourself well.

This is Relationship Diva signing off; I have places to explore and people to meet. Until next time, may your days be filled with peace, passion, pleasure and purpose.